I’m writing this because I need to. It’s not easy, but it’s important. I want to start by saying I love you, and I remember when things were good between us. We made a commitment to each other, and I still believe in that.
But lately, I’ve been feeling like things aren’t as balanced as they should be. I’m writing this because I need to talk about what feels like selfishness creeping into our relationship. Writing a “letter to my selfish husband” isn’t something I ever imagined I’d do.
It makes me vulnerable to put these feelings on paper. My intention isn’t to attack you or place blame. I just want to make our marriage better. I hope you’ll read this with an open mind and understand where I’m coming from.