So, you’re texting someone you like. Maybe it’s a new crush, or maybe it’s someone you’ve been seeing for a while. Either way, you’re excited to chat, but then… the replies start coming. They’re short. Really short. And they’re not exactly speedy. You start thinking, “She replies quickly but short… what does that mean?”
It’s easy to get caught up in overthinking every little thing when it comes to texting, especially when you’re trying to gauge someone’s interest. Are they not that into you? Are you saying something wrong? It’s a recipe for anxiety!
But before you start spiraling, take a deep breath. Interpreting text message behavior is tricky. You have to consider the context, the person’s personality, and what else might be going on in their life. Jumping to conclusions based solely on how quickly (or slowly) someone replies, or how long their messages are, is a dangerous game.
In this article, we’ll explore some of the reasons why someone might be sending short or slow replies, common texting mistakes to avoid, and some strategies for improving communication so you can stop stressing and start connecting.