Breakups are hard enough without the added confusion of trying to decipher your ex’s behavior, leaving you to wonder, does he hate me or am I overthinking? Maybe you’ve noticed they go out of their way to avoid you, yet you catch them staring when they think you don’t notice. What’s up with that?
It’s a head-scratcher, right? One minute they’re acting like you don’t exist, the next they’re practically burning a hole through you with their eyes. When your ex avoids you but stares at you, it can feel like emotional whiplash, leaving you wondering what it all means.
In this article, we’ll try to unpack some of the reasons behind this behavior. There may be a logical explanation.