People with avoidant attachment styles tend to find intimacy challenging. This attachment style usually stems from childhood experiences and creates a discomfort with being vulnerable. People who are avoidant often value their independence and self-reliance above all else.
But here’s the thing: they do want connection. They just fear it. The underlying belief is that getting too close will mean losing themselves or getting hurt. This creates a push-pull in relationships that can be confusing and frustrating.
It’s important to understand that avoidant individuals do experience love. The problem is they express it in ways that are often subtle and easily missed. It’s like they’re sending signals in code, making it hard to know how they truly feel.
So, how can you tell if an avoidant person loves you, even if they’re scared to show it? What are the signs an avoidant loves you but is scared to fully commit? We’ll explore the telltale signs of love, communication strategies that work, and the potential for both individuals to grow and build a secure connection.